How this works
This is high-structure coaching designed to create stable behavior under pressure… not just insight on a good day.
The flow
- Create your account (we capture the email even if you don’t buy yet).
- Select your program and check out via Stripe.
- After payment, your portal activates automatically via webhook.
- Access modules, track progress, and get direct support.
What makes this different
Most advice fails because it assumes you stay regulated. BPD doesn’t. This is built around what happens when your nervous system flips.
This isn’t “go journal and breathe.” It’s structured change: specific tools, specific language, specific protocols…so you can function even when you’re emotionally flooded.
Exactly what you get
You’re not buying vibes. You’re buying a structured set of classes (modules), plus coaching to turn those modules into real behavior change.
BPD Remission Program (16 modules)
This track is built to reduce symptom intensity, stabilize identity, and create emotional control in real life…not just on good days.
- Introduction to BPD
- Expectation vs Reality & Neurobiology
- Relationships & BPD
- The Core of BPD
- BPD Episodes & IES Symptom Map
- Relationship Complications
- Neurobiology & BPD
- BPD Splitting
- Rewiring the Brain
- Comorbidities
- Partners & Relationships (Part 1)
- Partners & Relationships (Part 2)
- Fear of Abandonment
- Self-Harm and Self-Sabotage
- Emotional Dysregulation
- Self-Validation
BPD Partner Program (8 modules)
This track is built for the partner’s reality: communication, boundaries, episodes, splits…without becoming a punching bag or a parent.
- Being in a BPD Relationship
- The BPD Episode
- Communication & BPD
- BPD Splits
- Understanding Your BPD Person
- Regaining Your Sense of Self
- Core Values
- Being a Support System
What’s included with every program
- Structured implementation plan (you won’t “get lost”)
- Direct coaching sessions with Kevin for breakthroughs + strategy
- 24/7 text support for live-time emotional instability
- Episode protocols (before, during, after)
- Splitting repair language + restoration moves
- Progress tracking so improvements are visible and measurable
How coaching + support actually works
Coaching is not the same thing as support. You need both. The sessions create *big shifts*…the support prevents you from losing ground when the nervous system flips.
Sessions = epiphanies + strategy
Sessions are for the “aha moments” that change your entire framework: pattern recognition, root cause clarity, identity stabilization, relationship repair strategy, and direct accountability.
- Root triggers mapped into repeatable patterns
- Rewrite the emotional logic driving episodes
- Create a stable plan that survives chaos
- Build boundaries without collapse or cruelty
24/7 support = episode mitigation
This is the part most coaching programs don’t have. If you can’t get help during the “flip,” then the advice only works on calm days.
- Live intervention to reduce impulsive behavior
- Text support during splitting / panic / rage
- Repair guidance after emotional damage
- Prevention messages before you detonate
Average response time: 2 to 4 hours (often faster).
Modules = stable skill-building
Modules give your brain repetition. Real change requires structure and exposure…not inspiration.
- Short digestible lessons
- Implementation focus, not just theory
- Tools you can use mid-crisis
- Build a new baseline over time
From the partner’s perspective
If you’re the partner, your experience matters too. You shouldn’t have to “figure out BPD” alone…or sacrifice your dignity to keep the peace.
The partner track (8 modules)
This program helps partners stop walking on eggshells and regain stability, while still becoming a better support system.
- Understand episodes + splits without taking the bait
- Communicate without escalation
- Hold boundaries without punishments or cruelty
- Restore your sense of self
How it connects to remission
The partner modules are not separate from the remission work… they’re designed to align both sides in the same system.
- Remission track = internal stability + symptom reduction
- Partner track = support behavior + relational protection
- Together = fewer ruptures, faster repair, less emotional chaos
What partners get most out of this
- A clear framework for episodes (what to do / what not to do)
- Language for repair without enabling
- Boundaries that don’t provoke war
- Clarity on when to hold space vs disengage
- Less confusion, less resentment, more control